{"id":123,"date":"2014-01-29T18:41:26","date_gmt":"2014-01-29T18:41:26","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lovewhatsreal.com\/?page_id=123"},"modified":"2017-02-07T17:47:12","modified_gmt":"2017-02-07T17:47:12","slug":"technology-relationships","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/ourgenderrevolution.org\/real-relationships\/technology-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Technology &#038; Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"<img decoding=\"async\" loading=\"lazy\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-148\" src=\"http:\/\/lovewhatsreal.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/tech_illus.jpg\" alt=\"tech_illus\" width=\"485\" height=\"479\" srcset=\"https:\/\/ourgenderrevolution.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/tech_illus.jpg 485w, https:\/\/ourgenderrevolution.org\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/01\/tech_illus-300x296.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 485px) 100vw, 485px\" \/>\n<ul>\n<li>Text caring and thoughtful messages<\/li>\n<li>Send shout-outs or birthday wishes<\/li>\n<li>Post a photo on favorite show, artist, or activity<\/li>\n<li>Post an event inviting friends\/family<\/li>\n<li>Snapchat a funny picture of yourself doing an activity you love<\/li>\n<li>Raise awareness about an issue that matters to you<\/li>\n<li>Technology is meant to enhance your social life, not consume it<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Cellular Relationships<\/h2>\n<p>Cellphones are a way to connect in a relationship, just don\u2019t let it take the place of face-to-face communication!<\/p>\n<h2>Cellular Relationships<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Not catching the hint that you don\u2019t want to text 24\/7 \u2013 let them know you want some time off the phone or just turn your phone off! Don\u2019t let the texts go from caring to controlling!<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t Let Friends\/BF\/GF make you feel bad for not texting back right away.<\/li>\n<li>If you like to text a lot, just ask if they\u2019re okay with how often. And, if you ever feel like you are obsessing, give yourself some space.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>Textual Harassment<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>Participating in texts that embarrass, threaten, bully, or pressure someone is abusive. Never forward or send this type of text.<\/li>\n<li>End textual harassment. Tell the sender they crossed a line and ask them to stop texting you. If it continues, talk to someone you trust \u2013 like a<br \/>\nfriend, parent, or counselor.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div class=\"col_4\">\n<div class=\"sc_infobox\"><strong>Where to get help<\/strong>If someone is in immediate danger, call 911.<\/p>\n<p>If you or a friend might be in an abusive relationship, talk to a parent\/caregiver, a school counselor, or another adult you trust, or a local domestic or sexual violence program.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Hotline Numbers<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>National Dating Abuse Helpline<\/strong>\n1-866-331-9474 or<br \/>\n<a title=\"Love Is Respect\" href=\"http:\/\/www.loveisrespect.org\" target=\"_blank\">www.loveisrespect.org<\/a> to chat online<\/p>\n<p><strong>National Suicide Hotline<\/strong>\n1-800-273-TALK (8255)<\/p>\n<p><strong>National Sexual Assault Hotline<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1-833-656-HOPE (4673) or<br \/>\n<a title=\"RAINN\" href=\"http:\/\/www.rainn.org\" target=\"_blank\">www.rainn.org<\/a> to chat online<\/p>\n<div class=\"clear\"><\/div><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"col_8 last\">\n<h2>Sexting &amp; Pic Pressure<\/h2>\n<p>If you get, send or even show any text or pic that is sexual, be aware that you may be entering an illegal situation. Here are some ground rules:<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>Don\u2019t ask for it. Never pressure anyone. Privacy is something to be respected.<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t take, show, send or forward it.<\/li>\n<li>If you already have asked for\/or sent a sexual-cellular-something, you\u2019re not a terrible person. Just realize it wasn\u2019t a smart move and don\u2019t do it again. Getting in trouble with the law or having the picture hang out in cyberspace forever, certainly isn\u2019t worth it.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<h2>Online Netiquette<\/h2>\n<p>Your online life is a part of who you are, even your relationships. So don\u2019t let yourself be<br \/>\npressured, disrespected or controlled in any space!<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>If you don\u2019t know \u2018em, ignore \u2018em. Save yourself the hassle of possibly having to get rid of a creeper later. Quality over quantity!<\/li>\n<li>Don\u2019t post anything you wouldn\u2019t want parents, grandparents, teachers, or future bosses to see. Keep it PG. Play nicely. If someone isn\u2019t doing the same, unfriend the person and talk to someone you trust. Harassment is never ok.<\/li>\n<li>Keep settings private. Don\u2019t over-share.<\/li>\n<li>Social media is just one more way to socialize. There is no reason to act like a different person online. Be yourself!<\/li>\n<li>A perk of social networking \u2013 no awkward pauses! 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